6 Tips for Starting the School Year Successfully
For many children, the first day of school will be their first ever day of school. Others will head to a brand-new school. As a pediatrician, I’m often asked how to best prepare a child for this big life change. Here is my advice to make your child’s start of the school year successful.
- Prepare your child – and yourself
Talk about what a typical school day may look like as well as topics such as bigger classrooms, new teachers and friends, and scheduled activities/meals. If your child’s school allows, visit the classroom and meet the teacher in advance. This can be especially helpful for children who don’t attend daycare. Make sure your child is getting good sleep. Families should have a bedtime routine that promotes good sleep hygiene.
- Play it safe
Teach your child their phone number and home address. This becomes useful if they ever get lost or need to get picked up from school. Make sure their school knows the approved guardians for pickups and their contact information.
- Encourage independence
When children learn independence, their confidence builds which makes new experiences seem less scary. Let your child put on their own jacket or shoes and practice potty routines.
- Start out strong
Make sure you understand school policies. Are there uniforms? What school supplies does your child need? Should you be packing lunch? These preparations will ensure your child starts school with everything they need. Follow the American Academy of Pediatrics checklist for the first day of school.
- Talk about the tough stuff
Kids often speak without filters and don’t understand the negative impact words and actions can have. Teach your children how every child is special in their own wonderful way. Give positive reinforcement and praise for good behaviors and model kindness. If your child has experienced bullying, have a heart-to-heart conversation with them and remind them how much they are loved and of all the amazing qualities they have. Familiarize yourself with your child’s school policies regarding bullying behaviors.
- Keep drop off short and sweet
Sometimes saying goodbye is a difficult time for your child – and maybe you. The most effective way to address separation anxiety is to keep the drop off brief. Say goodbye, give your child a big hug and kiss, let them know you will be picking them up later and leave. The longer you stay while your child is upset or crying, the longer they will continue to cry. Once you leave, their teacher will help with comforting them and introducing your child to the many fun distractions in the classroom.
As the school year begins, take a deep breath and remain calm. Parents tend to be more nervous than their children, which can increase kids’ anxiety. This is a big milestone to celebrate. Enjoy every moment of it. You’ve raised an amazing child. The best thing you can do is let them become independent while always being there with support and love.
Article contributed by: Dr. Khin Khin Bremer
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