November 18, 2018
Thirty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time

THE GIVING TREE

We invite you to join us again this year in making a difference for the individuals and families of St. Mark
parish who are in such great need. This year the families are struggling even more than past years. The need for warm clothes and food continues.

I would like to provide a brief explanation of how the Giving Tree works. St. Mark's provides us with a list of families and individuals that need our help. The list
includes people of all ages. For many of these families, the contribution from Wayside will be the only material gifts that they receive.

We are seeking to help make the holiday special for
children, adults and families. With that in mind we have structured our method of giving to best meet their need. We ask that your gift be provided in the form of a gift card. The gift card allows the parent to purchase exactly what their child wants or OR needs. A gift card for an adult may provide for the purchase of a much needed warm sweater or gloves.

Each envelope hung on the trees represents an individual that needs our help. Enclosed in each envelope is a slip for ordering gift certificates. You may purchase gift cards on your own or use the slip to indicate the amount of your gift and your choice of store. Return the
envelope with your check and the slip completed and we will purchase the gift card through our school.

We ask that you place your return gift envelope in the boxes at the back of church near the Giving Trees or in the Parish Office. The
final date for gift return is
December 9, 2018.
This allows time for our gifts to be delivered to and distributed at St. Mark and allows the families time to shop.

Thank you for joining us in this beautiful expression of the Christmas Spirit.

The second collection this weekend is for
CATHOLIC CAMPAIGN FOR
HUMAN DEVELOPEMENT

Catholic Campaign for Human Development (CCHD). The Catholic Campaign for Human Development helps strengthen families and communities throughout the Archdiocese of Chicago. Through the generous support of our Parishioners, CCHD programs help bring real change for the poor and help break the cycle of poverty in our communities.

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ADOPT-A-FAMILY
Contribute to the Religious Education Fund

The Religious Education Program has families in need of financial assistance to help pay for their tuition and fees. Some families have temporary needs, while other families, due to circumstantces, have an on-going need of monetary assistance.

The money donated for this purpose will be restricted to the Religious Education Scholarship Fund. Below are the amounts needed for the individual families: Please make checks payable to:
Our Lady of the Wayside. If you are able to assist, even in a small way, with the religious education of the children of our parish, please send all donations to Sister Joan or Sister Adrienne.

LITTLE SAINTS PRAY AND PLAY

Who: Young children (up to age 6) along with their  parent/caregiver.

What: Have fun sharing faith with family and friends.  Listen to Bible stories, learn about Saints, pray,  sing, and stretch. Then enjoy a time to connect  and chat while the kids play with the provided  toys.

When: Fridays semi-monthly from 9:30-10:30 a.m.,  November 30, December 14.

Where: Rectory/Church basement (enter in doors from  the Walnut Street parking lot)


Email Joanne or Elizabeth at
OLWLittleSaints@gmail.com - for more info or to sign up.

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RESURRECTION CHOIR: BRINGING THE SUPPORT OF THE PARISH TO FUNERAL LITURGIES
By Dan McMahon, Director of Music

Have you ever attended a funeral liturgy at which the only people singing were the cantor, the parish musician, and the priest/celebrant, or no one seemed to know the Mass parts? This may happen for many different reasons:  the family and friends are too overcome with grief to even think of singing or responding to the prayers, the funeral is for a very elderly person and there is a very small turnout, guests from other parishes or denominations are not familiar with the repertoire and responses, or family members are no longer practicing Catholics and are unfamiliar with both hymns and the mass parts.

Here at Our Lady of the Wayside Parish we are blessed to have a Resurrection Choir in place and actively ministering to those families in their time of need. As we have journeyed through the month of November, a time of remembering our beloved dead, I thought it would be appropriate to recognize the ministry of these dedicated individuals and make the larger parish aware that such a ministry even exists.

Professional mourners have been found in many different cultures. In ancient Greece, women followed the funeral processions, singing dirges and wailing lamentations, clapping hands as they went. This was common in early Egyptian and Jewish traditions as well. Italian women were hired to sing at the graveside and Irish mourners were called
keeners. The lament was by no means a spontaneous outbreak of grief but rather carefully controlled in accordance with the ritual at every stage.

Because today's culture has lost touch with the power of ritual, it is important that people who understand and have faith in the rich and beautiful rituals of the Catholic funeral liturgy be present. In this sense the choir is not simply a group of mourners. Rather, the funeral choir members are ambassadors of Christ representing the larger community of faith.

The
Rite of Christian Burial provides rich spiritual resources for understanding death as a return to God with hope for eternal life anchored in Christ's Resurrection. Thus, as Resurrection Choir members help the people to participate in this celebration, they are ambassadors of Christ. One could also say the choir becomes the formal representative of the parish community.

Indeed, the
Order of Christian Funerals itself calls for community participation in paragraph 153: "An organist or other instrumentalist, a cantor, and, whenever possible, a choir should be present to assist the congregation in singing the songs, responses, and acclamations of the funeral liturgy."

In paragraph 129 of the Order of Christian Funerals it states: "At the funeral liturgy the community gathers with the family and friends of the deceased to give praise and thanks to God for Christ's victory over sin and death, to commend the deceased to God's tender mercy and compassion, and to seek strength in the proclamation of the paschal mystery. Through the Holy Spirit the community is joined together in faith as one Body of Christ to
reafirm in sign and symbol, word and gesture that each believer through baptism shares in Christ's death and resurrection and can look to the day when all the elect will be raised up and united in the kingdom of light and peace."

It is indeed a blessing for our community of faith to have such a dedicated group of individuals who are so willing to be present to their fellow parishioners in their time of grief. We are always willing to welcome new members to this ministry. If you think you might be interested in joining please call Dan McMahon, Director of
Music at the Parish Center 847-253-5353 xt. 225 or email:
musicministry @olwparish.org. This group assists at each funeral and there is no extra time commitment other than the day of the funeral liturgy. It is a wonderful opportunity to become more involved in the parish and gain a deeper personal understanding of the hope of Resurrection promised to all of us at our own baptism.

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ADVENT BY CANDLELIGHT LADIES NIGHT
- A Little wine and wisdom

The Three Wise Women of the Nativity
Presented by: Mary McKeon
Tuesday, December 4, 2018 - 7:00 - 9:00 p.m.

at Holy Family Parish--2515 Palatine Road-Inverness, IL


There is no charge for this event!

There will be a wine and hors d'oeuvres reception after the presentation in the Holy Family narthex for a little escape from everyday life. You deserve it! Attire for the evening: Dressy casual.


Please register by November 28
To register contact Jeannie Parry at
jparry@holyfamilyparish.org or 847-907-3448

EVENING REFLECTION

On Thursday, December 6, at 7:00 p.m., St. Zachary Parish, 567 W. Algonquin Rd., Des Plaines, is hosting an Evening of Reflection in the Church. It will start with a prayer service, featuring Father Fred Licciardi as our evening speaker, and close with refreshments. All are prayerfully invited to attend.

MEN'S SILENT 12 STEP WEEKEND RETREAT

Bellarmine
Jesuit Retreat House
420 W. County Line Rd. - Barrington, IL 60010
www.JesuitRetreat.org - 847-381-1261

"Spiritual Principles Would Solve All My Problems"
December 7-9, 2018
Retreat Master, Fr. Frank Majka, S.J.
An ignatian, Silent 12-Step Retreat for Men

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MINISTERS OF THE LITURGY


5:00 pm Saturday, November 24, 2018
Presider: Father Dan Brady

Lector: Al Preusker, Kathy Maday
Euch. Min.:
Chuck Tomasek, Coord., Kim Banks, Julie Cleary,  Mike Hollis, Jan Hopkins, Kathy Maday, Al  Preusker, Ann Marie Tarczon, Ellen Tomasek,
Colleen Wozniak
Altar Serv.: Sarah Firestone, Mia Mortellaro, Joey Salatino,  Quinn Toomey
Music Min.:  Choir/Instrumentalist

7:30 am Sunday, November 25, 2018
Presider: Father Bill Zavaski
Deacon Jerry Brennan - Assisting
Lector: Arnie Lemke, Louise Dickey
Euch. Min.: 
Pat Van Klompenburg, Coord., Nattie Dilay, Jim  Frett, Sarah Lemke, Arnie Lemke, Edith Pena, Janet  Peters, Chris Sandefur, Mary Jean Sanderfur
Altar Serv.: Charlotte Errico, Louis Mallek, Daniel O'Connell,  Connor Towle
Music Min.: Cantor

9:30 am Sunday, November 25, 2018
Presider:
Father Corey Brost, C.S.V.
Lector: Sally Shewmon, Mary Ann Galvanoni
Euch. Min.:
Mary Ann Galvanoni, Coord., Marie Guska, Nancy  Odon, Tanya Petermann, Rich Pfisterer, Sally
Shewmon, Mchael Spehar, Jim Stapleton, Ron Stein,  Christopher R. Vann, George Wingerter
Altar Serv.: Charlie Dolsen, Nathan Georg, James Heraty,
Aiden Lewis
Music Min.: Ensemble/Instrumentalists

11:30 am Sunday, November 25, 2018
Presider:
Father Vinod Kumar Nagothu
Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching
Lector: Martha Cavers, Jeff Scardami
Euch. Min.:
Miriam Pecora, Coord., Gene Beiswenger, Winnie  Bowles, Kathy Freiburger, Frank Maniscalco, Vivian  Maniscalco, Mary Jane Niman, Joyce Voss, Dave  Woods
Altar Serv.: Kira Bondy, Kaitlyn Deloncker, James Doherty,  Kevin Doherty
Music Min.: Cantor/Instrumentalist

6:00 am Sunday, November 25, 2018
Presider: Father Dennis Kasule
Lector: Mary Anne Wlodyga
Euch. Min.: Michael Somary, Rocco Rooney, Ryan Crain,
Mary Anne Wlodyga
Altar Serv.: Jack Buehrer, Nicholas Strzyzynski

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Our Lady of the Wayside
Upcoming Events

Monday, November 19, 2018 - Sunday, November 25, 2018

SACRED LITURGY


Monday, November 19, 2018
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Marion Danisch, Marion MacKenzie

Tuesday, November 20, 2018
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Stephen Filar

Wednesday, November 21, 2018
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Sheila Berberick

Thursday, November 22, 2018
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Maxima Ugalino

Friday, November 23, 2018
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Jim McCabe

Saturday, November 24, 2018
8:30 am Communion Service
5:00 pm Bella Contreras, Joan Notaro, Daniel Barney

Sunday, November 25, 2018
7:30 am Agnes Kalmuk
9:30 am Juanita Musni, John O'Brien, Roy Anderson,
Martin Keller, David Stevenson,
11:30 am Jim Doherty, Joe Foreman, John O'Brien,
Henry Lysiak
6:00 pm Mathiri Ambooken

Saturday, November 24, 2018
12:00-3:00 p.m. Music for Youth School
Activity in E209 Day Care/Band  Room

1:00-4:30 p.m. Boy Scout Troop 161 in
Gathering Place

Sunday, November 25, 2018
During the  Children's Liturgy of the Word 9:30 a.m. Mass in Rectory Meeting Room

4:30-6:00 p.m. Boy Scout Troop 161 in Rectory  Meeting Room

Readings for the Week of November 18, 2018

Sunday:  Dn 12:1-3/Ps 16:5, 8, 9-10, 11 [1]/Heb 10:11- 14, 18/Mk 13:24-32
Monday:  Rv 1:1-4; 2:1-5/Ps 1:1-2, 3, 4 and 6 [Rv 2:17]/ Lk 18:35-43
Tuesday:  Rv 3:1-6, 14-22/Ps 15:2-3a, 3bc-4ab, 5 [Rv  3:21]/Lk 19:1-10
Wednesday:  Rv 4:1-11/Ps 150:1b-2, 3-4, 5-6 [1b]/Lk 19:11- 28
Thursday:  Rv 5:1-10/Ps 149:1b-2, 3-4, 5-6a and 9b [Rv  5:10]/Lk 19:41-44
Friday:  Rv 10:8-11/Ps 119:14, 24, 72, 103, 111, 131  [103a]/Lk 19:45-48
Saturday:  Rv 11:4-12/Ps 144:1b, 2, 9-10 [1b]/Lk 20:27-40
Next Sunday: Dn 7:13-14/Ps 93:1, 1-2, 5 [1a]/Rv 1:5-8/Jn  18:33b-37

PRAY FOR THE SICK

Michael Harth, Joe Walker, Sr., Bev Folkedahl, John O'Neill, Maureen Sexson, Pam Barton, Joshua Leese, Chad Demas, Catherine Hansen, Marie Caranci, Geraldine Shufeldt, Peter Phillips, Debbie (Flack) Fry, Carol Herman, Ann Kelley, Lynn Steele, Margaret Soboleski, Marie DeSanto, Steve Demas, Carol Blatnick, Joel Rivera, Arthur Dixon, Rita Maves, Joseph Halka, Fr. John Topper, Audra Tucker, Jeff Tucker, Mary Ellen Spiekerman

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ST. HUBERT'S JOB NETWORK

Our Lady of the Wayside is one of over 25 member parishes of St. Hubert's Job Network. Meetings are held on the second and fourth Mondays of the month at St. Hubert's in Hoffman Estates. Visit www.sainthubert.org/job-networking for a full schedule of events.

PARISH LIFE COMMISSION

PARTICIPATE IN OUR ONGOING EVENTS

Enjoy the parish community by meeting other parishioners at events such as Women's Golf, Men's Golf, Women's Bowling, Men's Basketball, Women's Bridge, Widows of Wayside (W.O.W.), and Christian Family Movement (CFM), the Senior Group and Fil-American Group. Contact parishlife @olwparish.org with questions.

WORSHIP AND SPIRITUAL LIFE

CHILDREN'S LITURGY OF THE WORD

Sunday Readings and Homily adapted for ages 3 to 10 on most Sundays at the 9:45 Mass before the Liturgy of the Word.  The children are invited to participate. The children will return for the remainder of the Mass. No registration is required!

BIBLE STUDY

Focus on the readings for the coming Sunday and their context in scripture. No registration or fee. Come when your schedule per

ROSARY PRAYER GROUP
Meets in the Seton room (#201) every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Contact - Chris

CARE AND OUTREACH

SHAWL MINISTRY

This prayerful ministry offers knitted or crocheted shawls to those who are in need of comfort physically, emotionally and spiritually. We meet every Thursday at 1:00 p.m. in the Parish Center - Cabrini Room. Questions contact Kit, Winnie.

ST. MARK'S - NON PERISHABLE FOOD DRIVE EVERY SUNDAY

Drop off bin located in Gathering Place hallway across from the drinking fountains (8-12 every Sunday) in addition to the Garage drop off (2nd Sunday of each month). To Volunteer - The Gilberts--collecting-The Piergalskis--delivery or Volunteer signup http://www.signupgenius.com/go/70a0f48acae2ca75-stmarks.

THE ELIZABETH MINISTRY

The Elizabeth Ministry offers families prayer and support during the joys, challenges and sorrows of the childbearing years. To contact a minister, please complete a card from the banner in the back of the church, or call the parish office or e-mail ElizabethMinistry @olwparish.org. or elizabethministry @att.net

RESPECT LIFE

The Respect Life Ministry works to make life issues visible and viable at the parish level. To get more involved in Respect Life at OLW, please email respectlife @olwparish.org.

FUNERAL LUNCHEON MINISTRY

This Ministry offers families in their time of sorrow a continental breakfast in the Gathering Place or sit down luncheon in the Rectory Meeting Room. For further information contact the parish office.

SPECIAL NEEDS MINISTRY

Special Needs Ministry was established to identify and meet the needs of our pacrishioners with special needs. Contact the parish office or email - special-needs @att.net or specialneeds @olwparish.org.

ST. VINCENT DEPAUL SOCIETY

An emergency source for short term financial help. For information or assistance, contact the DePaul voice mailbox at the parish 847-253-5353 x398.

MINISTRY OF CARE

OLW has trained Ministers of Care who are available to visit and bring communion to those parishioners who are homebound. If you are interested in receiving communion or being part of this ministry contact Kathy O'Neill, 847-253-5353, ext. 238.

LITTLE SAINTS PRAY & PLAY

Little Saints Pray & Play for children and their caregivers, meets twice monthly. Email OLWLittleSaints @gmail.com for more
information.